I’ve been thinking on people who never seem to interact with me except to correct me.

Tanya C. DePass
2 min readNov 24, 2016

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It’s something that annoys me on Tumblr as well, it’s not limited strictly to twitter. But it is annoying AF It makes me wonder if it’s a hate follow. Are they just waiting to pounce the moment I make a mistake? Have their gotcha! moment? Shocking news, I’m human and will make mistakes. Being told I’m wrong isn’t the issue here. It’s the folks who only show up when I mess up

Then out comes a bunch of people to tell me what I got wrong. In rapid succession to the point where I get irritated. What I’m talking about now are the followers who don’t really say much until I make an error in tweeting/retweeting a thing. I’ve got a lot of folks following me, and the fast moving nature of twitter means it’s easy to miss a tweet here or there.

Maybe it’s also how I use twitter and foolishly expect people who use it to act right. Maybe I shouldn’t expect this Cause if you can’t realize I don’t always want a conversation or to interact I’m not really interested in your unasked for opinions Sometimes I can ignore it. Other times I might mute or if you really irritate me you can catch a quick soft-block Or people that just *have* to reply to something I’ve said.

Sometimes I just wanna say my piece & go about my day. Not engage about it endlessly or with people I don’t even follow but feel the need to chime in to have their daily dose of being “right” as they can be about a thing.

It’s irritating. Imagine if at your job or school, a coworker or worse, someone who doesn’t even work in your same area always felt the need to throw in their two cents if they overhear a conversation that they maybe, sort of could contribute to or not really. It would get old and annoying right?

Same for me on twitter. I don’t need people to constantly @ me only to go HA YOU ARE WRONG! Not that I’m never wrong or don’t want to be told when I fuck up. But when the only engagement I get is people pointing out mistakes and nothing else? I wonder about their motivation in following me.

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Tanya C. DePass
Tanya C. DePass

Written by Tanya C. DePass

INDG Founder, cast Rivals of Waterdeep, Mother Lands RPG Creative Director, diversity & inclusion consultant, freelance rpg dev, speaker & Twitch Partner

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